The Danger of Believing That Everyone Likes You
Beloveds… In life there will be people, who for no reason at all, will simply not like you. They do not rejoice in your good fortune. They hate to see you coming. They talk bad about you when you leave. When people show you who they are – BELIEVE THEM! They do not care about your blessings, your breakthroughs, your beautiful home, your promotion, your great marriage, or your wonderful children; so stop telling all your business – and posting your blessed life on Facebook, because there are people who are waiting for you to fail.
Enjoy your blessed life but exercise some stealth… some secrecy… some discretion. For unto all a little rain must fall… and when your rainy season comes… you better believe that there are others rejoicing as you shed your tears. Gently move away from unfriendly friends.
Abba will show you who you can share your life with – and those trusted individuals will be very few. We often become entangled in avoidable situations that are spiritually and emotionally damaging because we do not vet our friendships. We vet our friendships by simply allowing our friendships time to grow and develop – pray for one another – enjoy one another’s company – but allow the Holy Spirit time to speak to your heart regarding the weaknesses and strengths of those around you –allow the Holy Spirit to direct you on who fits where in your life. Beloveds, it should be a privilege and an honor for someone to access your life.”
God knows the heart of every individual. He sees what we do not see. We must allow Father God to vet the traffic that comes and goes in our lives. He will send us the right confidants. There is a Johnathan for every David. Abba will not leave you comfortless. God will never fail you!
The more traffic we have coming in and out of lives, the more we open ourselves us to warfare that God never intended us to experience.”
Listen… our lives are valuable to God. We must become so enveloped in our relationship with God that everything becomes a shadow in the light of His presence.
Who Is An Unfriendly Friend?
- An unfriendly friend is disloyal, a backbiter, and a betrayer of confidence.
- An unfriendly friend is one who remains friends with the world and attempts to corrupt your good character.
- An unfriendly friend is one that digs a pit for you to fall into.
- An unfriendly friend is one who is ever misjudging you.
- An unfriendly friend tares you down rather than building you up.
- An unfriendly friend spreads gossip, lies, and accusations concerning you.
- An unfriendly friend is one who encourages others to dislike you.
- An unfriendly friend is one that is full of envy towards you.
- An unfriendly friend is one who does not wish you well but pretends otherwise.
- An unfriendly friend is one that can pollute your anointing and your life if you do not exercise great care.
- An unfriendly friend is one that covets the little you have been given, although they are abundantly blessed.
- An unfriendly friend doesn’t have your best interest at heart.
- An unfriendly friend is one with an agenda that is not in your best interests.
- An unfriendly friend sheds crocodile tears and sympathizes with you in public but behind your back says “Serves her right!” “Good for him!”
- An unfriendly friend is one that circulates your name around for evil.
Scripture Meditations:
Assignments:
FORGIVE – We must forgive all offenses.
PRAY – Let’s build our spiritual endurance by praying without ceasing.
WORSHIP – Let’s spend quality time in worship and allow all wounds and offenses to wash off in the presence of the Lord.
Prayer:
There are times when we must engage in militant intercession! These powerful prayers and resources will equip us to ENTER and POSSESS the Land – and conquer the strongholds keeping us from FREEDOM and FULLNESS in Messiah Yeshua! Below is prayer that will lead you into victory:
Father, we declare that “No weapon that is formed against us shall prosper and every tongue, which rises against us in judgment, we do condemn [PROVE TO BE IN THE WRONG]. This is our heritage as servants of the LORD, and our righteousness is from You, O LORD of Hosts.” (Isaiah 54:17) If there are those who have been speaking or praying against us, or seeking to harm, or do evil to us, or who have rejected us, we forgive them and having forgiven them, we ask that You would reduce their hearts to love, transform them into Your holiness, and birth within them reverent obedience to You Father so that the enemy can no longer use them against us, in the Name of Yeshua.
Fire of God deliver me now in the name of Yeshua. Every battle in my life that is raging out of envy, scatter by fire, in the name of Yeshua. I cancel the assignments of bewildered emotions, emotional pain, and a broken heart caused by unfriendly friends. Blood of Yeshua close all doorways of demonic invasion in my life, in Yeshua’s name.
Wherever my name is being called for evil, Blood of Yeshua speak better things concerning me. In the name of Yeshua, I disassociate myself from all harmful, unfruitful, and unprofitable relationships masquerading as friends. In the name I Yeshua I thank You Abba for sending strengthening relationships in my life.
In the name of Yeshua, I destroy every evil hand militating against my purpose, future, and success in life. Blood of Yeshua separate all unprofitable friends from me, in the name of Yeshua.
Holy Ghost fire, chase away every unfriendly friend in my life, in the name of Yeshua. Every power that has dug a pit for me, fall into your own pit in the name of Yeshua. I cut off every evil tounge circulating my name for evil. Lion of Judah roar over my life and scatter every unfriendly friend in the territory of my life in the name of Yeshua.
Father, I ask for Divine wisdom and discernment to come into my life now in the name of Yeshua. Anointing that breaks the yoke, fall upon my life now, in the name of Yeshua. Holy Spirit incubate me with your fire, in the name of Yeshua. Every attack of envious enemies, I command you to fail woeful, in the name of Yeshua.
Let every enemy that would rejoice in my tears and suffering be cut-off in Yeshua’s name. Sword of fire, cut off every evil attachment in my life, in the name of Yeshua. Blood of Yeshua, separate my life and destiny from every unfriendly friend, in the name of Yeshua.
Holy Ghost fire, purge my life from all spiritual contamination, in the name of Yeshua. Every tree that the Father did not plant in my life, be uprooted and roasted by fire, in the name of Yeshua. Every conscious and unconscious covenant and soul tie militating against my life, be annihilated in the name of Yeshua.
I separate my life from every evil association and every evil gathering by the power in the Blood of Yeshua. Fire of God deliver me now in the name of Yeshua.
I take authority over all curses pronounced against my life by unfriendly friends and I command the power of those words to be obliterated by the power of the Blood of Yeshua in the name of Yeshua.
I destroy every arrow of envious witchcraft, in the name of Yeshua. Every yoke of unfriendly friends upon my life, be annihilated by fire, in the name of Yeshua. Every damage done to my life by unfriendly friends, be repaired by the Blood of Yeshua in the name of Yeshua. By the power of the Blood of Yeshua, I recover all strength and blessings that unprofitable friends have siphoned from me in the name of Yeshua.
Thank you Lord for delivering me from the grip of unfriendly friends. In Yeshua’s name. Amen!
